6 Solid Steps To Take To Prevent Teenage Pregnancy

A member of the circle of moms kayleigh l. Posted : "what will you do if your 15-17 year old daughter came to you to tell you that she's pregnant".


What the circle of moms says is that 'preventing a teenage daughter from getting pregnant is not as easy as hoping that sex education at school alone will do that.
Here there are already laid plan ( tips and strategies) to prevent aged high school daughters from getting pregnant.

1. Have the sex talk
Its really obvious here, as many circle of moms member says they can't emphasis enough the importance of sitting down their teenage daughter and explaining all the fact about sex and birth control - information they need to make important choices about their body, their selves and their future.
" I plan to teach my children safe sex and birth control once they start learning about them at school" says jen b. "I'll let them know they can come to us once they start becoming sexually active. I know that it's getting harder for teens not to have sex, so I planned to keep my children informed on how to be safe.


2.Explain safe sex
Explaining birth control option is an important part of educating your teen daughter about safe sex,Suggests circle of moms members.  " As a mom, I am already teaching my children about safe sex," says Christiana M. "My 10-years-old knows what terrible disease sex can cause and how most of them can be eliminated by wearing a condom properly. We'll keep condom in our home at all times while our children are teenagers because we don't want them to be having sex as a teenager.
We know we can't prevent it. But we want them to be safe.

  The "talk" about safe sex should include "what sleeping with a boyfriend means emotionally to your daughter, says Dyan B. " I would talk to them about sex and what it involves emotionally and physically.

3.Teach her to Respect Herself
Its a mom's job to inspire her daughter(s) to care about herself emotionally as well as physically.
You have to talk to her, ask her questions, explain to her how boys of her age act and why they seem to want sex....stuffs like that. On a more serious note, if girls have good parents and learn to care about themself they will not go on to look for attention from boyfriends. Even if they'll have to, it will be little. and maybe they won't also make the choice of not being careful during sex.
They must also be teach how to have self control... And how to say no to any advances they may get from boys.

4. Always Encourage Abstinence
Many schools has helped by promoting Abstinence as the best choice. But numerous moms has been underscoring this message with their daughters. "I will also emphasis on the fact that Abstinence is the best way-out as we get into more detailed.
Parent must put into consideration and to follow religious teaching about the IMPORTANCE OF ABSTINENCE. 
And emphasis more on how it's Gods plan to wait for marriage.
You need to let her experience how hard it is to care about little babies...let her know the pains she'll go through if she eventually get pregnant as a teen and the probability that she may die as a result of not being matured enough to give birth.

5. Discuss The Option
Some circle of moms says "the best way to stave off unwanted pregnancy is to discuss what the option would be if their daughters did get pregnant, says Christina M., once a teen mom herself. Since any choice, whether adoption, teen parenting, or abortion, has consequences, a discussion like this can be eye-opening for a teen. Christina elaborates, "If she came to me pregnant, after I stopped yelling, I would present her with her options.
Abortion is not a personal option for me, so I would never suggest it for my child, but I would give her the pros and cons of adoption and parenting. I would make her check out an adoption agency, and also sit down with another teen mom to talk about teen parenting."


6. Realise you can only try
There's so much you can do to prevent unwanted pregnancy for you daughter. You can prevent everything/anything. Mind you children/teens will always have their decision to some good and some will be bad also. All you can do is educate her, talk to her .... And always keep the line of communication open. So then , you'll be able to trust her that she can make the right decision for herself.

Having A Crush On Him : Here Is How To Ask A Guy Out

If you're crushing on a colleague, you're not alone: A CareerBuilder.com survey found that 40 percent of workers have dated someone on the job during their career, proving that it's a hookup hot spot, albeit one with parameters. Just coupled up with a coworker like Glee costars Lea Michele and Cory Monteith or check out our advice for turning a flirtation into a potential relationship .

TESTING THE WATERS

It's a good idea to suss out whether your work crush has the hots for you too. Some tip-offs: If he starts hanging around your work space a lot or asks you to grab lunch or after-work drinks, says Stephanie Losee, coauthor of Office Mate.

It's also promising if he's in an unrelated department yet asks your opinion on a project of his — it indicates that he is looking for an excuse to talk to you and values your opinion, notes Losee.

You can do your own digging by jokingly saying, "Everyone thinks we're seeing each other, ha-ha. Crazy, right?" If he casts a wide grin or seems into the idea, the coast is clear to start flirting and see what happens.

AVOID GETTING BUSTED

Once you've gotten together (we know you'll get this thing moving), keep that isu on the DL. "If it turns out to be a two-week fling, nobody needs to know about it," says Helaine Olen, coauthor of Office Mate. And monitor how often you bring him up. Olen says coworkers often guess something is going on when one person mentions the other too frequently. For example, "Here's that report...John helped with the graphics" or "Where'd you go for lunch? Oh, John loves that place."

But if you were chummy before, don't ignore him now — that draws more attention than the occasional friendly moments does. No matter how covert you are, people are likely to catch on, but there's no need to broadcast it.

Hygienic Mistakes All Mums Make While Pregnant

With your unborn baby sitting in your womb there are a lot of precaution that you should take as a mother to be. You'll soon find out that you'll need to put on hold most of those habits and some beauty care routine you love so much before getting pregnant. This is because they might end up putting your unborn child at risk.


So what are those mistake you should avoid until after delivery, here are they , check them out

1.wearing underwear that doesn't breathe

This time making your down there area free from bacteria and infection should be your priority since anything that affect your veeejay area will also put the growing fetus(your baby) at risk.
Underwears that restrict your down area from free air passage will draw you close to infection so you should put those aside for the pregnancy period. You can use linen panties or cotton instead.


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2. Hot bath

Hot bath might seem tempting to relieve your body and  sore feet but its not advisable until your bun is out of the oven. Having a long bath with warm water could have effect on the chemical balance down there and might cause infection.

3. Not wiping correctly

Oh yes, you've just got down with your business down there in and out of the toilet since you're feeling not comfortable with your bump. 

Really, it can be exhausting but you just need to pay attention to things like wiping from the front to the back to avoid the spread of unwanted bacteria.

4. Brushing your teeth with fluoride

It's trace could end up in your body system and might act dangerous to your unborn child.
So there's need to be careful about the type of toothpaste you'll make use of while you're pregnant.
Naturally, teeth cleanser like baking soda would be the most preferred alternative to use.

Pregnancy is a period that all women would pass through if they are to have a baby(ies) , getting pregnant is not just the issue but to be hygienically active and okay.

Stay clean.

Warning: Please Don’T Do This When You Are On Your Period,It Might Be Deadly -All Women Must Read!

What you should not do when you have menstrual period! 
 

There are some things you should not do during your period. Amid this time of the month, some of the women are blessed with an easy period, while some go through hell. When you are in pain, there is a lot of discomfort in the body.
Here are the things you should avoid while you're on your period


1.Unprotected $.ex The chances are high during this time to get pregnant. In order to avoid infections, it is best not to have intercourse during a period.

2.Never Skip Meals Try not to skip meals when on a period. You have to remember that you are losing a lot of blood during this time and food will only make you feel energetic.

3.Stay Away From Physical Work If you experience back or stomach pain during periods, you should avoid doing any physical work because it will only make your pain worse.

6 Most Important Signs That Your Guy Is Not A Cheater

Being cheated on is the worst. You feel rejected and also pissed. You won't even know who you can trust.
Well, some scientific studies has narrowed down some traits that are statistically more common in guys who cheats, so here are some signs (not confirmation, obviously) that your guy will never go astray.

1.he's from the Midwest

According to a survey in an american university,Midwesterners are just too well-mannered to cheat on their partners. If your guy is from the Midwest then am sure you gat to be rest assured that he won't cheat on you... Maybe its a kind of hereditary to them.

2.he feels trusted and loved

Some thinks that men that do cheat when they are denied sexually but the fact is that most men don't cheat because they're not satisfied sexually. They cheat because they're seeking emotional satisfaction from their partners. If a man did not get enough emotional satisfaction from their partner, there is probability they could start cheating.

3. His friends are faithful

People are more likely to cheat if their friends are also cheaters, there's a popular saying that "show me your friend and I'll tell you who you are' so if a guy has a friend or friends that are trustworthy he will also be trustworthy.

4.he usually have a hard time getting it up

A survey from the sad study group showed that men who are easily aroused are more likely to cheat on their partner. So men that easily got aroused are the most likely to cheat.

5.bringing home the same amount of money

from an American Sociological review, it showed that partners were less likely to cheat on themself if they were in the same or very close income brackets. Men were more likely to cheat if they made a lot more money than their partner, and they were most likely to cheat if they made a lot less. So if you two have similar paychecks(wages or salary) you've got yourself on the high side.

6.if  he seems like he wouldn't cheat

A close look and observation at your guy can outrightly speak to your mind whether he'll cheat on you or not. Moreover, you should be able to have a foresight of what might later become of him in the relationship.

15 Ways To Identify A Fake Girlfried

A girlfriend should be a girl lover. Many has been in a relationship with ladies but later end up parting. Most times I would say the reason why relationship break at most times usually comes from the girl.
Girls has lot of cunning ways which guys don't really know about before going in relationship with them.



Here, I've figured out 15 ways in which you can identify a fake girlfriend.


1:A FAKE GIRLFRIEND will never call you except flashing, the highest she can ever do is to flash you, even though you send her airtime she'll still flash you.

2:A FAKE GIRLFRIEND always complain unnecessarily over little things. She always make you pissed of at little things.

3:A FAKE GIRLFRIEND only play and smile with you when you gave her money or when she wants to collect money from you. This has been common to almost all the girls except the faithful ones who is not after your money but your love.

4: A FAKE GIRLFRIEND doesn't discuss a marriage plan with you.she'll continue to act as a player in the relationship. She will never for once believe you

5: A FAKE GIRLFRIEND doesn't assist her guy in any way,she is only interesting in the money she collected from the guy.she would not even dare to show up at times to assist in doing your home chores.

6:A FAKE GIRLFRIEND doesn't discuss with you about how to plan your future life. All she cares about is just party party, taking her out to places you would spend for her.


7:A FAKE GIRLFRIEND doesn't advice you. She won't even intervene in your welfare nor gives you a piece of useful advice.

8:A FAKE GIRLFRIEND will never visited you unless you promise to give her some money. All is money to her

9:A FAKE GIRLFRIEND tell lies about herself,she will never tell the truth about her movement. This is because she lack self-worth and doesn't want you to have a trace on her bad sides.


10:A FAKE GIRLFRIEND disrespect her guy ,she talked to her guy any how taking advantage of the love of her guy. What you for her will be taken for granted.

11:A FAKE GIRLFRIEND has others men she is dating,she will never allow you to check her phone.sometimes she has many phone,she will never bring her main phone to your house whenever she's paying you a visit
12:A FAKE GIRLFRIEND will never introduce you to her real parents, the highest she can do is to introduce you to her sisters, brothers or fellow girls like her, those who will call you FOOL at your back, and will continue to tease you how much the girl love you.


13:A FAKE GIRLFRIEND will never send you a airtime whenever you ask her,even if you are trying her, she would never.

14:A FAKE GIRLFRIEND send her nude photos to others men. That's is really how she make money

15:A FAKE GIRLFRIEND will leave you whenever you are broke.the worse of it all, whenever your down and things doesn't get rosy anymore she'll just leave without any notice. These are the characteristics of fake girlfriends that occurs mostly.

6 Things That You Must Do To Make Your Marriage Successful And Last Long

I used to interpret the saying "Marriage is not for small boys" to mean small boys in terms of age, until I visited a female mentor that has been in marriage for 47 years. After much thinking and reasoning, I decided to put up this.



I asked, so what is the secret of your over 47 years in marriage?
Beaming, she retorted; My son, the expectations you bring into marriage will either spell its doom or success. I married my husband without expectations of enjoying his money or buying cars for me, but with time, my patience, hard work and God-fearing attitude yielded results of getting cars, houses, taking care of our children and all that.

You see, if a married lady keeps on nagging in the house, she pushes the spirit of her husband from the home. If you make the man unhappy, you make the house uncomfortable.


So, I married without high expectations from my husband but simply to make him happy always.

Yes, for the past 47 years, I would be the first to get up from bed and the last to go back to bed. I bath the kids, do devotions with them, prepare breakfast for my husband and boil hot water for him to bath. I iron his clothes he would take to work, kiss him and wish him the best in his daily endeavours.

I asked my old woman, so then what does the man do in return? She laughed all heart and hearty and replied; You see, this is the mistake you young ones make in marriage.
YOU DO SOMETHING FOR YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE AND EXPECT SAME REWARD FROM HIM OR HER, THIS IS WRONG!

When it becomes your attitude to only please your husband or wife always, the other person responds naturally. Indeed, if nothing touches the palm tree, it doesn't rattle.

She continued, my son, never carry "how rich or poor your family is" into marriage. After all, you knew very well the status of your family and decided to marry that man or woman.

Love only compels/leads would-be couples into marriage but it doesn't sustain marriage. Rather, understanding, patience, communication and most importantly, forgiveness sustain every marriage. High expectations are the symptoms of divorce in marriages.

Sometimes you hear, I want to marry a mother, a business partner, God fearing person etc. You cannot get all your expectations in one person. With time and depending on your relationship, you may get some. So minimise your expectations in marriage.

To cut the long story short, as too many cooks spoil the broth, she concluded on the mistakes a couple should resist at all cost in marriage:


Take note of these and implement them in your marriage

1) Never say you have made your wife or husband somebody from a nobody. It hurts. God only used you as an agent for transformation, give the glory to God.

2) Let the man be head of the home no matter the financial, economic,
physical and emotional health situation prevailing in the couple's life whilst the woman exercises diligence in the use of the tongue.

3) Having children should not be the ultimate objective in marriage. They are given to enhance your marriage. When God delays in giving you a child, have every reason to live a happy marital life.

4) S'ex is a major morale booster after a hard day's stressful life. Try to be s'exual beings and not "Angels" in that marriage

5) Resort to God often and less to men to solve your marital disputes.

6) Let the women " Make up" their characters much more than they make up their body.



Finally,
Indeed, marriage is not for small boys because small boys struggle to forgive, demand everything speedily, lack the patience to wait, have so many friends etc.
Put in every effort to let that marriage work and may God help us all.

See How A Nigerian Boyfriend Machete His Girlfriend In Uyo

Wonder will never cease to happen in this our country,am still wondering what could have made this guy do this to his girlfriend.






Akpan obot was reported to the police yesterday dated 08/03/2017 for wanting to kill his girlfriend In the room, reason for this still remain unknown to everyone.

But the police has assured they will carry out proper investigation so as to know why such a thing happened.

The guy has been detained and we were told he will be charge to court as soon the police is done with his case

Girls be careful!

Drug Abuse >> Jss 3 Student Dies After Taking 10 Tramadol Tablets

Drug abuse in the country seems to be growing and spreading like wide fire and the government seems not to be able to control it, a school student dies from consuming 10 tablet of Tramadol.

Tramadol seems to be one of the highest consumed drugs by the youths, and drug abuse this days seems to be a normal thing among youths.

A Junior Secondary School pupil at Ohafia in Arochukwu Local Government of Abia State has reportedly died after consuming 10 tablets of Tramadol.

This statement was made by the Commandant of National Drug Law Enforcement Agency (NDLEA) Mr. Akindele Akingbade.

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Mr. Akindele Akingbade. who spoke in Umuahia, the Abia State capital, while delivering a lecture at a seminar NDLEA and Office of the Senior Special Assistant to Governor Okezie Ikpeazu on Narcotics and Abia State Drug Abuse Control Committee (ADCC) organised for patent medicine dealers.

Secondary School Student Dies After Consuming 10 Tablets Of Tramadol.

The Nation reports that Akingbade mentioned in his lecture that the pupil was alleged to have taken the Tramadol tablets to enhance his performance during an inter-house sports competition in his school.

He was said to have died shortly after taking the drugs.

The NDLEA boss, who said Abia was among the states with a high level of drug/substance abuse, added that the governor had been informed about the incident.

He said efforts were being made to apprehend the seller as directed by the governor.

Akingbade advised patent medicine dealers to desist from selling drugs without prescription by doctors or pharmacists.

He attributed the high rate of crimes, including robbery, rape, kidnapping and others to the effect of drugs.

Akingbade said besides the agency’s resolve to take the awareness campaign against selling of harmful drugs to the abusers, they (NDLEA) had begun encouraging schools to establish Drug Free Clubs, to discourage pupils from taking drugs.

                     photo of the deceased

The Director of Pharmaceutical Services, Ministry of Health and Chairman, ADCC, Chief Chimezie Uzuegbu, as well as the Senior Special Assistant to Governor Ikpeazu, David Anyanwu, hailed NDLEA for its efforts in curbing drug abuse.

The rate at which young people consume the banned drug is quite alarming and its already getting out of hand.

101 Health Benefit Of Kissing That You Should Know

In my junior-high school days, I launch a poll to my friends of how many times they've seen or watch their parent kissing, but the result baffles me a lot . all of them said NEVER.

that sounds confusing right? Yes it was , but I thought of it that they were not fortunate enough to have seen that.

Kissing

Did you think kissing? Have you ever kissed before? What have you ever think while kissing? What thought came to your mind before and after kissing?

These are really great questions that anyone can ask or thought of. Let me quickly remind you what kissingis.

When we talk about kissing , kissing I would say is a caress or touch with the lips to show love or greetings

Among partners ( lovers) I'll assume kissing is to show that love still exist among them or to trigger s!exual desire. But to  coworker's or friends then I'll say its just a mere greetings and there's nothing associated with it.

I can say that most friends kissing is a peck and should not be called kiss. 

What do you think of while kissing your lover

Most people usually think that kissing their partner is a great way to express their love. Of course it is ! But not at most. Love is in the mind and can be express in some ways in which kissing is included. But be sure you can kiss someone just to fake them . I won't tell you kissing your partner is not a way to show love ,I'll just say that it should be the least way.

Do you ever think that there are some health benefit of kissing?

Oh! Don't just tell me you only have kiss for fun.. NO!.

there are benefits attached to kissing .take a look - when kissing, you're about to do some certain things like 

• Exercise your lips
• Exchange of saliva
• Get real insight about how healthy your partner mouth is
• E.t.c

Let me now share with you some of the health benefit of kissing your partner. Kissing here! I mean passionately.

Briefs on benefits of kissing

1.kissing strengthens relationships

Kissing promote togetherness among couples who kiss regularly. And do you know? Couples who kiss regularly tends to live 5 years longer than couples who do not.

2.Kissing helps us to be healthy

Kissing helps to protect our bodies from bacteria by producing Antibodies. There's also natural antibiotics that's been secreted from our saliva when we kiss. When kissing we all produce more saliva to help wash our teeth clean.

3.Kissing reduces stress

Kissing has similar benefits to meditation, and it has also been measured to lower anxiety. So when you kiss there should be a sigh of relief.

Some other Top benefits of kissing

• It will increase dopamine

• It lower sugar level

• It reduces pain

• It improves immunity

• It will increase oxytocin

• It help fight off cavities

There are still many other benefits of kissing,  its just for you to know that kissing is not just an ordinary name, its justify by some characteristics that you need to know and have in mind.

Love your partner! Love your love! Strive to get the best from your love life!.

In my next article, I'll write on WHAT TO DO NEXT WHEN YOUR PARTNER SAY ITS OVER.'

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9 Great Tips On How To Flirt With A Lady

In my last post, I wrote about how to successfully approach a lady. I promised earlier on to publish a post on how you can flirt with a lady. Flirting is one of the major keys that aids relationships, at times when the girl did not see any dating potential in the guy or when the guy doesn't even know how to flirt with her oops! Something will surely go wrong as time goes on.

Dating Chemistry : How To Know If She Is A Good Match For You

"In the context of relationships, chemistry is a simple "emotion" that two people get when they share a special connection. It is not necessarily sexual. It is the impulse making one think "I need to see this [other] person again" - that feeling of "we click".

Most times, уоu can feel thе dаtіng сhеmіѕtrу rіght away: Thе twо of you сlісk. Othеr tіmеѕ іt саn bе hаrd tо tеll if thіngѕ are happening thе wау уоu want them to. So when уоu’rе іn dоubt, hоw do уоu knоw іf ѕhе’ѕ a gооd fіt fоr уоu? This becomes іnсrеаѕіnglу іmроrtаnt the more dаtеѕ уоu gо on. 

 Sіgn 1: Shаrеd Sеnѕе оf Humоr 

Sense оf humоr ѕауѕ a lоt аbоut whо wе аrе as реорlе. So whеn the twо оf you hаvе a ѕhаrеd sense of humоr, уоu рrоbаblу have a lоt оf other thіngѕ іn common. In fасt, wе often tеll guуѕ tо ѕtаrt tаlkіng to girls іn a humоrоuѕ wау. Humоr takes thе еdgе оff оf social interaction аnd саn bе a grеаt ѕосіаl lubricant іn gеnеrаl. It’ѕ nоt gоіng to еntіrеlу fuel a rеlаtіоnѕhір, but іt саn gеt іt rоllіng and іgnіtе thе spark оf dаtіng сhеmіѕtrу. 

If уоu two have a ѕеnѕе оf humоr іn common, you probably have a grеаt deal of оthеr thіngѕ іn соmmоn. Humоr іѕ mostly buіlt оn a ѕhаrеd vіеw оf thе wоrld as well аѕ ѕhаrеd сulturаl references. Think аbоut іt: Dоn’t уоu have a similar sense оf humоr wіth most оf уоur friends? 

Sіgn 2: Shаrеd moments

Dо thе twо оf уоu gеt аlоng? Dо you lіkе spending time together? Is thеrе аn еmоtіоnаl соnnесtіоn thеrе? All оf thіѕ ѕtuff is important whеn it comes tо dating сhеmіѕtrу. You need to еnjоу ѕреndіng time together. Yоu nееd to look fоrwаrd tо seeing each other. If іt bесоmеѕ a сhоrе уоu’rе better off moving оn and trуіng to fіnd ѕоmеоnе that you dо hаvе thаt kіnd оf соnnесtіоn wіth. 

Whаt’ѕ mоrе, hоw does уоur соnvеrѕаtіоn flow? Do you guys аlwауѕ hаvе something tо tаlk about or is thе соnvеrѕаtіоn stilted and awkward? Thе fоrmеr is a good ѕіgn оf dаtіng chemistry, whіlе the lаttеr іѕ clearly nоt. 

Sign 3: Sеxuаl Spark 

Let’s not mіnсе wоrdѕ: If thеrе’ѕ nо ѕеxuаl ѕраrk between thе twо оf you аt the bеgіnnіng, уоu’rе рrоbаblу nоt gоіng to сrеаtе оnе lаtеr. So if уоu’rе nоt real hot to trоt fоr each other, the rеlаtіоnѕhір dоеѕn’t hаvе muсh of a futurе. Your tіmе іѕ better ѕреnt meeting оthеr women, rеgаrdlеѕѕ of whаt kind оf еmоtіоnаl соnnесtіоn уоu might hаvе with hеr. 

Onсе уоu ѕtаrt really gеttіng into things, іt’ѕ time tо ѕtаrt асtuаllу tаlkіng about the ѕеxuаl side оf thіngѕ. Dо thе twо оf you 

Sign 4: Shаrеd Values 

Shаrеd values аrе necessary for аnуthіng tо wоrk over the long term, thоugh they mіght not be аѕ іmроrtаnt for thе ѕhоrt- and mеdіum-tеrm. Sо if you’re wоndеrіng аbоut thе long tеrm, it’s tіmе tо start thinking аbоut whеthеr оr nоt thе two оf уоu dо have shared vаluеѕ. It dоеѕn’t matter if you want tо marry her and have kіdѕ оr аnуthіng lіkе that; It’ѕ juѕt thаt a lасk оf ѕhаrеd vаluеѕ can ѕtаrt сrеаtіng ѕоmе ѕеrіоuѕ frісtіоn bеtwееn a соuрlе once уоu pass thе mоnth mаrk. 

Do You Really Want To Keep Him : Here Are 6 Ways To Keep Him On His Toes (And In Love) In The Relationship

Keep him guessing!

Oh yes!

It’s one of the oldest and effective stories in the book: Guys love the chase. That’s what makes the first stage of the relationship — "the honeymoon phase" — so exciting. Not only is everything new, but he still has the mindset that he needs to win you over.

After some time passes, however, and you both settle into the relationship, he begins to get very comfortable. The chase is over. Therefore, he thinks he doesn’t have to work as hard (or at all) anymore to keep you.

Of course, that’s totally false. So, what can you do to break him of this bad behavior and keep him on his toes when the chase is over?

1. Tell him when you're bored.

No matter how comfortable he is, no one wants to bore their partner. Boredom is a red flag on either side of the relationship that something might be about to go very wrong.

Relationships hit natural ruts sometimes , but don’t accept that as an excuse. If he gets the idea that you’re growing bored or even disinterested, then he’ll step up his game.

2. Let him know you’re not going to stick around regardless.

You love him, but you have your own set of needs that need to be met. He has to be aware of that, and don’t just assume it’s something he already knows.

Love is important, but the bottom line is you’re not going to be there forever if the relationship isn’t mutually beneficial. That’s why so many marriages end in divorce .

3. Call him out the FIRST time he does something wrong..

Don’t be too much of a stickler because that’s no fun. However, if he does something that bothers you, don’t just let it slide the first time. Take care of it then and there.

If you don’t catch it the first time, he’ll think whatever he did or said was OK and he’ll eventually do it again, and then you’ll really have a duduk perkara convincing him otherwise.

4. make him aware you have another option

If you notice he’s been slacking off or not giving you the attention that you require, make him aware of the fact that he’s not the only man on planet Earth that finds you attractive. I’m not saying cheat or intentionally make him jealous , but if a guy hits on you in the course of your daily routine, slip it into a conversation.

He needs to know that you’re a wanted woman and that if he doesn’t put the work in to keep you, someone else will.

5. Take the reins.

If he’s being boring and lazy, show him what it is to be spontaneous and fun. Lead by example. Plan a fun day or weekend trip together. Crack out a map (yes, those paper things still exist) and start putting the pieces together. Show him that sitting around watching Netflix every day won’t cut it.

6. Spend time apart.

If he’s gotten too comfortable, maybe it’s time to upset your usual routine. You may be spending too much time together and that’s led him to think that you’re always going to be by his side without him having to try.

Take a few days off. Plan to see other friends or go to events without him. Doing activities separately will wake him up a little bit.

What To Do When There Is A Break-Up In Your Relationship

6 Signs That You Are In A Great Relationship With Your Partner

Being in love is one of the best feelings in the world which keeps the world running. Entering a
relationship filled with love is pretty special, but once the amorousness disappears, couples can
experience some difficulties. Having a quality relationship is not something you can achieve
overnight; you have to work on it every day.

 So, if you want to maintain a good relationship, you
have to know what the signs of one are. Due to that, I want to share with you the  signs that shows you are in a great relationship.

1.   You don’t want to change anything
When you are thinking about your relationship, you just love it. You don’t mind anything about it
and you don’t want to change one single thing in your relationship. 

Most unhappy couples hide

the fact that they aren’t satisfied with their partner. Now, that doesn’t mean you or your partner
are perfect. That means that you both have accepted each other with all your flaws and virtues.
Accepting each other is the right way to achieve the best relationship of your life.

2.   You can say what you mean
It doesn’t matter whether you are talking about something irrelevant or having a disagreement,
having the opportunity to speak your mind is very important. So what if you are fighting once in a
while? Every healthy relationship will encounter a disagreement because that means you can be
opened to each other. If you aren’t fighting or at least discussing that means that you don’t care
or you are afraid to speak your mind. Both things are equally bad for your relationship.

3.   You have your own space
When you are with someone you love 24/7 that is the most amazing feeling in the world. But,
there is one better feeling and that is the moment you see your partner after few days. Allow
yourself to miss your partner once in a while. 

Hang out with your family and friends without him.
You had a life before him and you mustn’t forget your friends just because you are in a
relationship. That way you will grow; as a part of a couple and as an individual.

4.   You trust each other
Jealousy and mistrust are the worst enemies of every relationship and they both start with
secrets. Having a secret-free relationship will leave no room for jealousy in your life. If you can
both trust each other unconditionally, you are one step closer to having a great relationship.

5.   You are intimate
Sex is a part of every healthy relationship, but intimacy means more than just physical attraction.
That means that you both show affection to each other every moment of the day, not just in the
bedroom. Sometimes it is something simple as a hug or a kiss on the cheek and sometimes it is a
romantic gesture - roses with the note saying “I love you”.

6.   You are a team
Every minute of the day your partner knows where you are and you know about him. When you
have something to decide, you are deciding it together. There is no room for secrets in healthy
relationships. When you are a couple you have to understand that you are a team and that means
you have to act accordingly. And also respect your relationship. 

After The First Date

     The time after the first date can be a very emotional experience. The excitement of what to do next can be racing through someone's mind. These emotions are magnified even further if the date was a success. This however is a time to slow down and play it cool. The last thing anyone wants to do is scare of a potential Mr or Mrs right.

    There are many excited singles longing to reach for the phone at the first opportunity. Getting to know someone doesn't need to be achieved within a few days, it's a process that needs to take time. The relationship needs space to breath. A day or two after the first date is a perfect time to collect thoughts, and as they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder.
When you do get around to that first phone call remember to stay relaxed and don't come across as being infatuated. Try to get a sense of how the date went for the other person.

When the time is right mention how the date went for you, and see what type of response you get. If it's a positive one you have the option of talking about another date, or playing it cool a little longer. Maybe call them again in another couple of days, but still leave them with the feeling that you are very interested. You don't want to give them the impression you are not as this could put doubts in their mind.

    The next call should be about the second date if you haven't mentioned it in the previous call. Arrange a quiet place for the date so you can still chat in comfort, and get to know them a bit more.

    As the dates progress, adding fun to them can bring two people closer. Trying an activity for the first time like bowling can create some humor. Learn to laugh together, it's a very romantic emotion.

    The time after your first date can be an exciting, emotional experience. Remember to relax, play it cool, and don't come across as being infatuated, and everything should run along smoothly.